tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8538201862478523166.post5454728285139352016..comments2023-07-22T08:35:53.743-07:00Comments on All that matters is Family!: Story 13 : How can I choose between Parents and Wife ?Family Friendhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16258080186557354850noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8538201862478523166.post-89371844548355269222010-04-23T12:14:44.575-07:002010-04-23T12:14:44.575-07:00Ya its easy to understand what you must be going t...Ya its easy to understand what you must be going through....<br />Try Speaking to them individually.. I Know u have have tried to do it previously...<br />but this time try to 'Empathize'.. listen to them without any preconceived notions... try to understand their individual stand.. People are most disturbed when their ego has taken a beating... i'm sure there would have been more than one instance where this would have happened, some times unknowingly as-well... leading to building up of cold war.. only if we could break this ice would we realize the full potential of this institution called 'Family'. <br />Marital discords are common... but unless we know what the actual point of discord is.. to put it other words...how long could u treat a patient empirically, without knowing the actual diagnosis..??<br />Try to begin with your spouse... talk to her..if u can make her realize that if after 25 odd years of upbringing of her only son & he were to abandon her and simply walk away with another whom he hardly knew for 5 years would it be okay for her..?! She might be reluctant initially.. but if u could her believe that u are genuinely concerned about her and your child.. she might spell the beans... and this would be the starting point of your tiresome journey to Complete 'Your Family'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com